The ceremony is what the whole wedding is about! Not the dress (I am sure most will not agree) not the partyâ€¦itâ€™s about two people committing to one another for a lifetime. What is right for you? A ceremony at church? A nondenominational, but still spiritual ceremony? A civil ceremony, maybe followed by another ceremony of a traditional, ethnic, or religious nature at a different time and place? Who will be your officiant?